Adult Dating – Analysis, Tips and Advice

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I first started using conventional online dating back in the late 90s, when in fact most people would never admit to resorting to such a way of getting dates, meeting people etc. People who did so were branded as ‘desperate’ back in those days. Things are completely different now of course.

Personally I was never coy about using online dating as in fact I have always believed it to be far preferable to the so-called conventional methods – meeting in a bar, at work etc. This is because it actually allows both individuals to quietly appraise each other – something that’s not really possible at a loud club or pub.

Over the past 12 years or so everything has changed and very few people are reticent about using online dating sites. In fact there is now a multitude of specialist sites – Gay dating, Mature dating, Uniform dating (what’s all that about!), Sports dating, Fat dating, Fetish dating, Clown dating (!) etc and of course Adult Dating.

There are many online adult dating sites where people of all ages can sign in and browse thousands of sexy guys and women looking for a sexual encounter for the night or maybe something a bit more long-term. It’s easy to filter results by age and specific area and it covers most of the UK including the Channel Islands.

Some Do’s and Don’ts of Adult Dating

Get the photo right! No matter how much women insist that a sense of humour is the most important thing it’s amazing how they prefer your sense of humour if you’re young and attractive! However, don’t put in one of you 20 years ago or simply cut a picture of Brad Pitt or Cameron Diaz out of a magazine and retouch it. Just ensure that it’s a relatively recent and reasonably flattering photo and shows you at your best. And guys, it’s best not to just post photos of your private parts because on their own they do not turn women on.

Tell the truth (within reason)

Of course you should mention your good points etc but don’t lie about your age UNLESS you really can pass for 10 years younger than you really are.

The Date

I wouldn’t advise you to pre-arrange meeting for dinner, as if the person doesn’t come up to expectations you will be stuck with spending at least a couple of hours with them followed by a possibly hefty bill! Just arrange to meet for a drink at a bar or pub or maybe coffee. If things look good and you’re both hungry for not just food you can always move on to dinner and maybe more. Of course, the obvious safety advice, particularly for women, is to meet in a public place – do not go round to the other person’s house or flat and if possible let some one else know where you are.

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10 Helpful Tips to Be a Brilliant Adult Trainer

The journey to become better than just a good teacher starts by having a sound knowledge and an ability to communicate that knowledge to the students.

Before you get started with your career as an adult teacher, you would require the necessary education and also a certificate that qualifies you to train others. From there on, it will all be about slowly accumulating experience in your journey to excel in your role as you understand better the methodology of teaching and also the psyche involved in teaching various students. To get you started on the right path, below are a few of the tips that experienced teachers have often recommended:

Thoroughly learn what you study

You need to be brilliant as a student before you can think of becoming a brilliant teacher. Learn everything you study by heart and try to research your subjects thoroughly at university and also take time out to familiarise yourself with other topics. To have a better perspective in life, you would need all the knowledge you can get.

Ask questions

A curious mind is a healthy mind. Start by taking interest in anything that you may feel curious about. Try to do research, ask many questions and find relevant answers. Brilliant teachers are always avid as learners and they also keep their mind open to fresh thoughts and ideas, wherever they may come from!

Respect opinions

Respect begets respect. If you are going to stick to your own notions of right and wrong without giving it a fair thought, you’d come off as disrespectful and a hard-liner. You should be able to understand every student’s way of learning things and by doing that you would be able to teach them at a level they are comfortable. Always respect everyone’s views and perspectives. Also, diversity could lead to different set of opinions, however, with an open mind you’d be able to comprehend it better and be brilliant.

Practice patience

You can’t think of becoming a teacher, let alone a brilliant one without the quality of patience. You could easily be witness to a heated argument between students or between the students and you. Staying calm and knowing how to turn down the heat are almost essential requirements of the job.

Preach only what you follow

You would be looked up as a role model by your students, so take your own advice and do things the right way.

Understand the art of communication

When you are teaching, you can’t just give a speech and walk out. Communication is a two way process and you need to answer to the curiosities of your students. Try listening to them so you can understand them before answering their questions.

Don’t bore with uni dimensional lectures

You can’t just teach and not challenge the trainees’ minds. If you don’t, you’ll not be able to spark their interest in that subject. Think creatively and look for more enjoyable means of teaching such as by giving real life examples and organising workshops.

Keep your audience together

You many not be a street performer or a leader, but you still preside over an audience. You would need to keep them amused throughout the duration of your act (lecture), for them to keep their eyes and ears on you. Many brilliant adult teachers employ emotions and humour to their advantage.

Passion is the key

If you are not passionate about your job, you will not be able to teach others with passion. Start enjoying the challenges and take it all in your stride as you teach every new batch of students.

Inspire by example

More often than not, brilliant teachers are not just remembered for how they teach, instead they are respected as individuals. Because their students find their passion and dedication interesting, they feel inspired to learn from such teachers.

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The Truth About Adult Dating Websites

The internet is jam packed full of online dating websites. Just Google ‘dating’ and you will be presented with a seemingly endless list of sites from which to choose. These traditional dating sites are great if you are on the hunt for Mr or Mrs Right but what if you’re not interested in long term commitment? What if you would prefer no-strings-attached adult fun? This is where adult friend finding websites come into their own.

Adult friend finding sites cater for liberally minded individuals who want to experience adult fun with complete strangers. If that sounds like your cup of tea then you certainly aren’t alone. Adult friend finder websites boast many millions of members worldwide, the most popular site boasting over 20 million members alone.

Most of the sites follow a similar format. Members create a ‘profile’ consisting of a description of themselves and details of the type of person they would like to meet. The profile usually also contains risqué photographs and videos which the member has uploaded (another reason for the popularity of these sites!)

Members are able to search and view each other’s profiles. The sites offer various methods of communication between members including messaging, chat rooms and forums. Some even allow members to post accounts of their adult adventures for all to read!

Success with these sites is not just down to luck. It has been proven that a good quality photograph of your face will drastically increase the number of people who view your profile. If you are the proud owner of an athletic body then include photographs of that too but clothed photos are fine if you are a little shy!

Include as much information as possible within your profile and try to appear approachable. Don’t be afraid to add a little humour. As everyone has different preferences, make sure you state very clearly what ‘floats your boat’ and what is out of bounds.

When searching for other members, don’t make the common mistake of firing off the same message to everyone who takes your fancy. Ensure that others share your interests and live within traveling distance. Make sure you mention some detail of a member’s profile to prove that you have taken the time to read it thoroughly. Don’t come across as pushy or desperate.

Unfortunately not everyone using these sites is as genuine as they should be. You will learn over time to spot time wasters and fakes. A good rule of thumb… if it seems too good to be true, it probably is! Don’t waste your time, move on.

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Adult Dating – Analysis, Tips and Advice

I first started using conventional online dating back in the late 90s, when in fact most people would never admit to resorting to such a way of getting dates, meeting people etc. People who did so were branded as ‘desperate’ back in those days. Things are completely different now of course.

Personally I was never coy about using online dating as in fact I have always believed it to be far preferable to the so-called conventional methods – meeting in a bar, at work etc. This is because it actually allows both individuals to quietly appraise each other – something that’s not really possible at a loud club or pub.

Over the past 12 years or so everything has changed and very few people are reticent about using online dating sites. In fact there is now a multitude of specialist sites – Gay dating, Mature dating, Uniform dating (what’s all that about!), Sports dating, Fat dating, Fetish dating, Clown dating (!) etc and of course Adult Dating.

There are many online adult dating sites where people of all ages can sign in and browse thousands of sexy guys and women looking for a sexual encounter for the night or maybe something a bit more long-term. It’s easy to filter results by age and specific area and it covers most of the UK including the Channel Islands.

Some Do’s and Don’ts of Adult Dating

Get the photo right! No matter how much women insist that a sense of humour is the most important thing it’s amazing how they prefer your sense of humour if you’re young and attractive! However, don’t put in one of you 20 years ago or simply cut a picture of Brad Pitt or Cameron Diaz out of a magazine and retouch it. Just ensure that it’s a relatively recent and reasonably flattering photo and shows you at your best. And guys, it’s best not to just post photos of your private parts because on their own they do not turn women on.

Tell the truth (within reason)

Of course you should mention your good points etc but don’t lie about your age UNLESS you really can pass for 10 years younger than you really are.

The Date

I wouldn’t advise you to pre-arrange meeting for dinner, as if the person doesn’t come up to expectations you will be stuck with spending at least a couple of hours with them followed by a possibly hefty bill! Just arrange to meet for a drink at a bar or pub or maybe coffee. If things look good and you’re both hungry for not just food you can always move on to dinner and maybe more. Of course, the obvious safety advice, particularly for women, is to meet in a public place – do not go round to the other person’s house or flat and if possible let some one else know where you are.

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Why You Should Be Watching Adult Entertainment For Educational Purposes

Now we all know that porn (referred to adult entertainment for the rest of this article J) gets a bad rap. We have to hide it in the back of cupboards, clear our internet history and deny all interest in it to our partners and especially our mums! Now I am talking purely about good, healthy sex and lovemaking here, mixed in with hot women and a bit of fantasy here and there. There is certainly plenty of bad stuff out there and I in no way at all condone it. Straight up stuff is fine with me and that’s what I’m talking about!

But what if there was a way that it could be justified, that viewing adult entertainment could be regarded as a selfless act and a true measure of mans continued journey to learn how to pleasure his lady? Imagine watching it for educational purposes and having your wife, girlfriend or partner look lovingly at you, smile and thank you for doing it as if you had just done all the washing and mowed the lawns while you were at it! This would be a wonderful world however I am sure by now, you see the humour and realise that this fantasy is as close to happening as us being involved in some of the plot lines in these films.

So although, you will just about never be able to justify your interest in such films, this does not mean that from time to time you should not actually take the time out to watch these movies and clips from a different viewpoint.

Put aside our male desire to see hot naked women going for it for all they are worth. Put aside the fantasy and imagination these films inspire in us and actually watch some of these movies from a technical observer’s point of view. Sounds a bit weird but you would be surprised on how much you can actually take in and learn from watching the pro’s do their stuff.

Women absolutely love men that can take control in bed and know which buttons on the female body to press, when to press them and how to press them. For the man interested in improving his lovemaking and sexual prowess, this information can be gleaned from many an adult film. Take note of the individual techniques and methods used. Keep in mind how the women are touched and how they respond and more importantly pay particular attention to the way women touch themselves to get off. Oh and by the way, don’t forget to spend plenty of time “researching” those lesbian scenes! If you are going to learn anything about how women like to be pleasured it will be by watching two women go for it! Hard work I know but try and get through it…

Now you will have to take caution here and not rely just on the screams and moans! We all know how vocal these ladies can get and it will be up to you to determine what is real pleasure and what is fake. Good luck with that one!

In conclusion, although you will never be able to justify to your wife or girlfriend that you are watching adult entertainment so you can learn how to pleasure them better, that is no reason why once in a while you shouldn’t watch some for that very reason. You will improve your skills and feel better about yourself for doing so!

So get out there and watch some porn! If you feel you are not getting it then by all means, keep watching it til you do – no one likes a quitter!

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